Wow, I thought I had it bad when the health insurance made me drive to Baltimore for the foot surgeon instead of the one right down the street, but Los Angeles??! WTF?? This country is so screwed up. I'm sorry you are going through so much hon :_( but I'm immensely glad there is some hope for a fix that would allow your hubby to get back on his feet. I'd be so crabby if I were him, it says a lot that he's in good spirits.

Hugs and prayers for both of you, and that the health insurance gets their act together for your shoulders, love ♥ ♥